Closeness in relationships
One of the motivating factors for having a partner is the fulfillment of needs in one’s life. Here are 6 spheres of intimacy that mates can discuss and think about to build happier relationships together.
Emotional intimacy
You feel close to one another. You feel emotionally supported and cared for by your mate. There is a sharing of hurts and joys and a sense that each of you is genuinely interested in the well-being of the other.
Social closeness
You have many friends in common as opposed to socializing separately. Having time together with mutual friends is an important part of your shared activities.
Intellectual intimacy
Intellectual intimacy involves the sharing of ideas. In short, when you are intellectually intimate, you talk to each other. More than just superficial conversations about the weather, you seek input from your mate regarding issues of importance. You value your mate's opinion and want to share your own.
Sexual Intimacy
True sexual intimacy involves more than the mere performance of the sex act. In truly intimate marriages, sexual expression is an essential part of the relationship. It is a communication vehicle and not just a duty. Genuine interest, satisfaction, ability to discuss sexual issues... these are characteristics of a sexually intimate relationship.
Recreational closeness
You enjoy and share in many of the same "just for fun" activities. You have many similar interests.
Adapted from: After You Day “I Do”, Making the most of your marriage by H. Norman Wright.
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